Understanding Coercive Control: What our research shows

Understanding coercive control: What you need to know from our new research

Concerned that a rising number of divorce cases we handle now involve coercive control, we recently commissioned a nationally representative survey to uncover the scope of the issue and better understand the barriers preventing victims from seeking help. Coercive control is often misunderstood, yet it’s a serious form of emotional and psychological abuse that can strip away a person’s autonomy and self-worth. Despite its criminalisation in 2015 under UK law, the research revealed that many people – both victims and perpetrators – are still unaware of its severity and legal implications.

Through the survey findings, we hope to raise awareness by revealing the alarming prevalence of coercive control, as well as examining societal attitudes toward these behaviours. By highlighting the widespread nature of this form of abuse, we hope to educate people on recognising the signs, understanding their rights from a legal perspective and seeking the support they need.

Recorded coercive control offences have increased to 45,000 cases in 2024 from 43,000 and 41,000 in the previous two years as reported by the Office for National Statistics. 

How common is coercive control?

The research revealed that 1 in 5 people (20%) have experienced coercive control, underscoring just how widespread this issue is and suggesting that it could be at risk of becoming normalised in the UK. Alarmingly, 14% of respondents admitted they are still trapped in such relationships. For many victims, leaving is not a straightforward option, as complex factors often weigh heavily on their decisions to stay.

Why do people stay in these relationships?

Victims remain in coercively controlling relationships for a number of reasons. For 41%, financial dependence is the biggest factor. But fear plays a huge role too – 39% said they’re afraid of change, and 32% fear being alone. Child-related responsibilities and worries about personal safety (30% and 25%, respectively) add to the emotional weight keeping victims from leaving. Cultural and religious factors are also significant – 23% cited culture, and 21% mentioned religion as reasons for staying with an abusive partner.

James Maguire, family law solicitor and Cecilia Goodwin, criminal solicitor, discuss why people might stay in coercive relationships.

A lack of awareness and understanding

One of the most striking revelations is the lack of awareness about coercive control itself. The research found that 1 in 3 people did not realise that coercive control was a criminal offence before taking the survey. Additionally, less than half of respondents (49%) said they were confident about where to turn for help, suggesting a clear need for increased education about the support options available and the potential repercussions for perpetrators of coercive control.

Societal attitudes towards coercive behaviour

The research further explored perceptions of what constitutes coercive or controlling behaviour, with the data revealing some interesting trends. Younger people were found to be notably more tolerant of these behaviours compared to older respondents. Gender also played a role, with women being less tolerant of coercive actions than men.

This pattern extended across demographics, with Londoners showing higher tolerance compared to other regions of the UK, and people in the South East being notably less tolerant.

Cultural factors in coercive relationships

The role of culture was another significant theme, particularly among young people and men. 70% of 25- to 34-year-olds and 41% of men cited culture as the reason they remained in a coercively controlling relationship. This raises important questions about the influence of cultural norms and expectations in shaping relationship dynamics.

The path forward

Many people may not recognise that they are in a coercively controlling relationship, while others might not realise that their own behaviours are abusive or even criminal. This underscores the importance of raising awareness about the signs of coercive control and ensuring accessible support for those affected. Often, it falls to us to explain to clients that the behaviour they’ve experienced, or are displaying, is not acceptable.

Coercive control is a pervasive issue that impacts the lives of many, yet it is still misunderstood and under-reported. With 1 in 3 people unaware that this form of abuse is illegal, and so many remaining in coercively controlling relationships due to fear, cultural expectations, or financial pressures, it’s clear that education and intervention are crucial.

How can Maguire Family Law help?

At Maguire Family Law, we understand the complexities surrounding coercive control and are dedicated to helping those affected navigate this challenging situation. Our team offers compassionate and confidential legal advice, ensuring that victims know their rights and the legal avenues available to support them.

Whether it’s guidance on leaving an abusive relationship, the financial implications for those who feel trapped, securing safety measures, or understanding the criminal implications of coercive control, we are here to provide the support you need. If you or someone you know is experiencing coercive control, please reach out – we’re here to help.